Sick days, revisited
October 13, 2011 at 4:45 am | Posted in small law, the book biz, the firm | 2 CommentsAt my former BigLaw job, staying home when ill would make me feel worse than hauling myself into work sick as a dog. Oh, the anxiety! I would lie in bed feeling resoundingly guilty, my Blackberry burning up in my hand. I felt the need to reply to every email, every voicemail instantaneously. Mentioning that I was home sick was a sign of weakness, and anyway I was afraid no one would believe me. (What? Why did I think this? I have no idea.)
Yesterday, I emailed my colleagues around 7 a.m. to let them know I’d likely be in late morning — I had been up all night with some sort of stomach bug.
“Please don’t come in and get us all sick,” one pleaded. But I had a few emails that needed to be sent. “I’ll do it for you,” offered another colleague. Granted, this particular piece of business was agency-related, not billable legal work, but to offer to do it for me so I could stay home? Relief.
Later that morning, an email popped in my inbox from a legal client. Could we have a phone call at 11:30 a.m.? I emailed around to let everyone know that I’d call in. Immediately, another email from a colleague: “We don’t need you for this call! Back to bed!”
Is it my BigLaw work ethic or BigLaw fear that makes a legitimate sick day somehow worse than going into the office sick? I think it more likely that it is the latter!
Anyway, it’s fun working with non-lawyers, and even more fun working with lawyers who actually prefer me to stay home when sick.
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I totally know what you mean! At biglaw there really aren’t any real sick days. Instead, they are work from home days where you are still “on” all day long.
I don’t miss those days from biglaw. Now, I’m a stay at home mom, and I suppose I don’t really get any sick days either. But my new “bosses” are more understanding than my old ones.
Love the blog, btw – I just came across it a few days ago. We have a lot in common!
Comment by But I Do Have a Law Degree— October 13, 2011 #
Oh, Big Firm lawyers want you to stay home when you get sick – but be as productive as if you were in the office. You have been so great about blogging. I’m going to work on one too!
Comment by mommyesq— October 14, 2011 #